Who is Private Game for?

Couples who want a shared activity that goes beyond small talk and beyond a screen — long-term partners looking to reconnect, newer couples building intimacy, or anyone who wants a structured way to talk about attraction and desire without having to script it themselves.

Do we need to install anything to play?

No. Private Game runs as a Progressive Web App in any modern browser at private-game.app. You can add it to your home screen for an app-like feel, but there is no App Store or Play Store step required to start playing.

How much does it cost?

A full session is free — 15 or 22 cards drawn from the Spark and Warmth tiers, plus a small Heat sample. Unlocking the complete Fire and Inferno catalog is a one-time purchase or a weekly pass, and themed expansion packs are sold separately.

Can we control how far the game goes?

Yes — you choose a tier ceiling from Spark up to Inferno before each session starts, and the deck never draws above it. You can also skip any individual card at any time, no explanation required.

An Intimate Couples Card Game You Actually Control

Private Game is an intimate couples card game built around one idea: closeness works best when it is guided, not left to chance. Instead of a generic list of "36 questions," it moves two partners through a deliberate arc — from easy conversation, to flirtation, to whatever depth of physical intimacy you both choose — using a deck of 600+ cards you can start playing free, right now, in your browser.

Below you can try a small sample of the deck yourself, see exactly how a session runs, and read how the game is designed so neither partner is ever pushed further than they want to go.

What is an intimate couples card game, and who is it for?

An intimate couples card game is a structured deck of prompts — questions, tasks, dares, and shared activities — that two partners work through together, usually taking turns to draw and respond. The prompts are typically graded from gentle to more intense, so the game builds a mood rather than dropping two people into an intense question cold. It works because it removes the awkwardness of having to invent your own conversation starters or plan your own physical intimacy from a blank page — the deck does that work, and you just respond honestly.

It suits long-term couples who want a reliable way to reconnect after a stretch of autopilot, newer couples who want a low-pressure way to build intimacy faster than dating alone allows, and anyone who would rather have a structured prompt than an unscripted conversation about desire. It is designed for two players in the same room — on one phone passed back and forth, or with one phone as a controller and a shared screen in TV-display mode.

What makes Private Game different

— Five intensity tiers. Spark, Warmth, Heat, Fire and Inferno — you pick a ceiling before you start, and the deck never draws above it. Full breakdown on the tiers page.
— A three-phase session arc. Every session moves through Connection, Exploration and Passion — you warm up before the game builds toward your chosen ceiling, instead of jumping around at random.
— Five card types. Questions, Tasks, Dares, Duets (both partners at once) and Wildcards keep the format from going stale over a session.
— 600+ cards, three languages. The full catalog is available in English, Dutch and French, switchable per session.
— No install, free to start. Private Game runs as a Progressive Web App in any modern browser — no App Store, no account required to try it.
— TV-display mode. One phone acts as the controller while a second screen — tablet, laptop, or smart TV — shows the cards full-screen, synced in real time. Good for a couch session where the phone stays out of view.

How a session actually runs

You open Private Game on a phone, choose a session length and your tier ceiling, and the deck builds itself around those two settings — no setup beyond that. The full guide walks through every step, but the shape of a session is:

Set your tier ceiling and pick quick (15 cards) or classic (22 cards) length.
The Connection phase opens with light Spark and Warmth cards — icebreakers and flirty questions that get you both talking.
The Exploration phase raises the temperature gradually, mixing in Tasks, Dares and Duets as the conversation deepens.
The Passion phase pushes toward whatever ceiling you set, ending with a wind-down rather than stopping abruptly.
A short aftercare step closes the session — a moment to check in with each other before you put the phone down.

Built around consent, not just content

An intimate card game only works if both partners trust that they are in control of it. Private Game is designed with that as the starting point, not an afterthought:

Tier ceiling. You choose the maximum intensity before you start, and the deck respects it for the whole session — nothing surprises you above it.
Safe word. Either partner can pause or stop the session at any point, for any reason, with no explanation owed.
Skip. Any single card can be skipped in one tap — no penalty, no need to justify it to your partner.
Aftercare. Every session ends with a short check-in, not a hard cut to the home screen — a deliberate moment to land together before you close the app.

Try 8 sample cards

These are from the free Spark and Warmth tiers — gentle enough to try right here, before you ever open the app.

Spark Question

What's one small thing I do that makes you feel loved?

Card 1 of 8

This is a taste of the free tier — the full deck goes deeper across Heat, Fire and Inferno once you unlock it in the app.

Ready to play with your partner? Open Private Game in your browser — no install, free to start, 18+. New to the game? Read the guide, browse questions to ask your partner, or check the FAQ first.

Frequently asked questions

What is an intimate couples card game?: It's a structured deck of prompts — questions, tasks, dares, and shared activities — designed to guide two partners through deeper conversation and physical closeness, usually organised from gentle to more intense so the pace stays deliberate rather than random.
Who is Private Game for?: Couples who want a shared activity that goes beyond small talk and beyond a screen — long-term partners looking to reconnect, newer couples building intimacy, or anyone who wants a structured way to talk about attraction and desire without having to script it themselves.
Do we need to install anything to play?: No. Private Game runs as a Progressive Web App in any modern browser at private-game.app. You can add it to your home screen for an app-like feel, but there is no App Store or Play Store step required to start playing.
How much does it cost?: A full session is free — 15 or 22 cards drawn from the Spark and Warmth tiers, plus a small Heat sample. Unlocking the complete Fire and Inferno catalog is a one-time purchase or a weekly pass, and themed expansion packs are sold separately.
Can we control how far the game goes?: Yes — you choose a tier ceiling from Spark up to Inferno before each session starts, and the deck never draws above it. You can also skip any individual card at any time, no explanation required.

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